What Can I Do if My Partner Doesn’t Support My Pregnancy?

Learning that your partner doesn’t support your pregnancy can mean several things. They may be upset that you are pregnant in the first place, or perhaps they aren’t on board with your pregnancy decision.

This can be a tense time, but remember that your health and well-being are most important. No one can make a pregnancy decision for you, and you deserve to be protected.

Treasure Valley Path offers free services in a caring, safe environment. No matter your situation, you have a place here. Schedule an appointment at one of our locations today.

Are You in a Safe Situation?

Sometimes, a partner needs some time to process your pregnancy news before you have further discussions. However, your safety should never be at risk. 

Abuse during pregnancy can harm you and lead to issues like miscarriage or stillbirth. You deserve to be in an environment free from harm.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. You can also receive additional help and resources through the 24/7 National Domestic Violence Hotline.

Abuse and mistreatment of any kind is never acceptable. You can find healing and support.

Assessing the Situation

If your partner isn’t abusive and you’re in a relationship, you’ll have to make some decisions about the next steps. They can discuss their fears and concerns with you once they’ve had time to process the situation.

Perhaps they’re feeling extra responsibility or aren’t aware of your options. You can decide what role you’d like them to play. If needed, reiterate that this is your pregnancy decision and set boundaries. 

At Treasure Valley Path, you can receive services like a no-cost ultrasound and pregnancy consultation. You and your partner can learn more about your pregnancy, ask questions, and discuss your options here.

Your partner may realize you both have more support for parenting or adoption than previously thought. More resources are available than they may realize.

If you and your partner disagree on a pregnancy decision, remember that you are in control. For example, if you choose to parent, you can still receive the support needed to be successful. You won’t be alone. 

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

Treasure Valley Path is here for you. No matter your situation, we’ll provide non-judgmental pregnancy and options information. 

Schedule a free appointment today.